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Therapist Uncensored Podcast & Community
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Two Austin therapists and their nationally-respected guest experts share the science of modern attachment and relational neurobiology in understandable tidbits you can use in real life.
"Improv for Connection: Embracing Complexity and Creativity in Challenging Conversations" (243)
Dr. Ann Kelley and Lisa Kays discuss how improv can be a vessel in deepening conversations around tough topics like race and oppression. They examine white supremacy culture and show how improv values like collaboration, slowing down, and embracing complexity can challenge these norms. Improv fosters creativity, playfulness, and self-reflection to help reduce defensiveness, and strengthen relationships whether in everyday life, at work, or in our closest relationships. By creating a supportive, collaborative environment, improv deepens connections and helps people tap into a wider range of emotions.
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Journey to Self-Discovery: Navigating Identity & Mental Health as a Korean American Immigrant (241)
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"Being Asian American means living in two worlds, and finding your place in both." - Unknown Dr. Ann Kelley and Hyeseung Song, a first-generation Korean American discuss Hyeseung's experiences growing up as an Asian minority in America, touching on topics like racial stereotypes, assimilation, and the model minority myth. Hyeseung shares her journey of finding her voice and identity, highlighti...
SXSW Book Talk - Secure Relating Holding Your Own in an Insecure World
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Proposal to have our book included in SXSW book discussion panels! It's up for a community vote - please give us a thumbs up! (we will add link as soon as we have it)
Ann & Sue apply to speak at SXSW!
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Here is our pitch to get to present at the most amazing conference ever! Take a look! It's voted on by the community so give us an up-vote as well!! xoxo
Security Individually, Relationally, and in Community with Ann & Sue (237)
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Part 3 - Let's talk about deepening security relationally This is our final part where we lean into the last section of the book to help us all build a deeper connection, Moving from individual to interpersonal and then societal levels, we discuss the complexities of human connection. Ann and Sue touch on leadership and the need for nuance in navigating today's challenges while aiming to expand...
Holding Your Own - Behind the Scenes and Part I of Secure Relating with Ann & Sue (235)
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After years of hard work, Sue and Ann could not be more excited to celebrate the release of their book. Today's episode offers behind the scene's conversation and a deeper dive into Part 1 of the book, Secure Relating Holding Your Own in an Insecure World. You can purchase it now directly at www.securerelatingbook.com and get an ad-free podcast feed at www.therapistuncensored.com/join.
Shifting Activation Levels: Part II of Secure Relating with Ann & Sue (236)
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The party isn't over quite yet. This is part 2 of 3 of our behind-the-scenes look at our book journey. Following the launch of the book, our virtual party, and our Modern Attachment conference in Austin, TX, Ann and Sue open with gratitude from the event, and for the overwhelming outpour of love and support from our community and those who help inspire this content. As we dive into more chapter...
Information Processing: Sunglasses, Early Attachment & More with Ann & Sue (233)
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Ann and Sue are back for another deep dive, this time on all things information processing. Using the concept of sunglasses as a metaphor for information distortion, they explain how our internal working models and attachment experiences shape the way we perceive and interpret information. The sunglasses represent different states of activation, with clear glasses indicating a secure state and ...
The Neuroscience Behind Our Collective Dysregulation: Navigating Today's Social Crisis (232)
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The Neuroscience Behind Our Collective Dysregulation: Navigating Today's Social Crisis (232)
Secure Relating with DeLinda Spain, LCSW, CGP, CEDS
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Secure Relating with DeLinda Spain, LCSW, CGP, CEDS
Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World - Grab Your Copy Today!
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Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World - Grab Your Copy Today!
Hypnosis for Healing: Understanding the Powerful Science with Dr. David Spiegel (231)
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Hypnosis for Healing: Understanding the Powerful Science with Dr. David Spiegel (231)
Mind, Body, Heart, Spirit: Embodying Liberation Psychology with Dr. Shena Young (230)
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Mind, Body, Heart, Spirit: Embodying Liberation Psychology with Dr. Shena Young (230)
Ways to Connect and Ground Yourself with Nature for Healing with Dr. Shena
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Ways to Connect and Ground Yourself with Nature for Healing with Dr. Shena
Cultivating Spiritual Resilience with Dr. Arielle Schwartz
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Cultivating Spiritual Resilience with Dr. Arielle Schwartz
"If I uphold a system that I know is dehumanizing someone...I become less human myself"
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"If I uphold a system that I know is dehumanizing someone...I become less human myself"
Using Boundary Practices to Support Growth with Juliane Taylor Shore
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Using Boundary Practices to Support Growth with Juliane Taylor Shore
Therapist Uncensored Podcast & Community“Go Find Your People” A Message of Hope from Melody Li, LMFT
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Therapist Uncensored Podcast & Community“Go Find Your People” A Message of Hope from Melody Li, LMFT
"You Are Not the Problem, the Structure is the Problem" with Melody Li
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"You Are Not the Problem, the Structure is the Problem" with Melody Li
A Neuroscience-Proven Expressive Writing Protocol with Dr. James Pennebaker (225)
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A Neuroscience-Proven Expressive Writing Protocol with Dr. James Pennebaker (225)
Ways to Show Support When Someone “Comes Out” to You
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Ways to Show Support When Someone “Comes Out” to You
"Is sexuality a choice?" Debunking the Narrative with Jeff Lutes
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"Is sexuality a choice?" Debunking the Narrative with Jeff Lutes
Changing the Way We Think About Chronic Illness
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Changing the Way We Think About Chronic Illness
Believing Chronic Fatigue - Living with Long Covid ME/CFS & Hard to Diagnose Chronic Illnesses (223)
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Believing Chronic Fatigue - Living with Long Covid ME/CFS & Hard to Diagnose Chronic Illnesses (223)
“...It’s About Growing From Where You Are Today”
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“...It’s About Growing From Where You Are Today”
Challenges of Living with Chronic Illness in a Westernized Culture
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Challenges of Living with Chronic Illness in a Westernized Culture
Advocacy & Activism - Getting Involved to be the Best Version of Yourself
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Advocacy & Activism - Getting Involved to be the Best Version of Yourself
Trailblazers in Love: Understanding & Advocating for the LGBTQ+ Community with Jeff Lutes (222)
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Trailblazers in Love: Understanding & Advocating for the LGBTQ Community with Jeff Lutes (222)
Ways to Help Support LGBTQ+ Identifying Loved Ones with Jeff Lutes
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Ways to Help Support LGBTQ Identifying Loved Ones with Jeff Lutes
So is it developmental or prewired?
Here's the link to vote to have this education included at SXSW panelpicker.sxsw.com/vote
Here is the link to vote for SXSW to include us! panelpicker.sxsw.com/vote
Wow! Bless you for inviting Dr shena j young on this podcast! Just listening to the words she helps us REFORM is so liberating for me! When she uses terms like "Global Majority" to describe us, Black Americans, it is more accurate for my own LIVED experience...I am an American who is African, yet my CULTURE, LANGUAGE and HERITAGE was ripped from me and my American family lineage. I am NOT an immigrant. I am both Indigenous to America and from a bloodline forced through torture and terrorism to this land as abused captives that are generationally traumatized through systemic dehumanization, disenfranchised, betrayed and perpetual oppression. My surviving People and I have been lied to and betrayed for generations about liberation and reparations despite being the central labor used to build the wealth, commerce, infrastructure, and appropriated democracy & culture of this nation. To hear Dr shena young identify "European supremacy education" is such a profound acknowledgement for generational African Indigenous American survivors of the ongoing and unamended American racist terrorism that profits from our genocide and human enslavement, that continues through the American Jim Crow lynching mass incarceral caste system, land theft, resource theft, and deadly toxic planetary destruction and extinction of wildlife ESSENTIAL to our African and Indigenous education. European supremacy education literally disembodies me and harms me the same way sexual abuse experienced in our misogynistic imbedded rape culture does. I'm so amazed that Dr shena was able to navigate through her colonized and disembodying Euro-supremacy education experience so that she was able to transform and emerge as such an authentic and holistic healer for us! Thank you once again for such a robust and liberating interview!
I don't agree with this guy's understand of Parts and IFS
This little video deserves so much more attention.
Walk through is at around 24:30. Thanks so much for this wonderful interview!
Very fascinating! Thank you for sharing this protocol!
Completely disagree… no facts just emotions
Does ideal parent figure protocol work well self guided ?
Why do we have two?
Ask Iain McGilchrist
I love Jeff! Followed his work since his time at Soulforce. How can I hear more from him?
We have a full episode with Jeff on our podcast, Therapist Uncensored. We are on all major podcast players, he is featured on episode 222 from earlier this year!
I have a (hopefully) interesting question. I think there is some truth to, in general, men lean blue and women lean red. I believe you both are a couple? Would you say you both lean red, but in your partnership, one of you leans blue? Or would you say that one of you has "always" been blue (ie childhood condition) and that's what lead to your attraction? I am interested in the idea that these polarities can either be highly complementary or polarizing. In the "ideal" we would all be green and be open with each other but with clear boundaries. How realistic is that actually? Is it more accurate to say that a good partnership is 2 people who are insecure but know it, or 2 people who have achieved some sort of consistent green zone relating? I've heard gottman and tatkin talk about mentor couples, as though there are people out there who are a green/green union. Is that real or more of a conceptualization?
Love this dr he’s a gift such a fantastic voice
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❤ excellent
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✅good video
Brilliant thank you
Me too
I am a HUGE fan of my friend who does Sound Baths ... I feel like I've been cleansed from the top down after one session... I'm new to EMDR. Just finally found a therapist.
Eternity grateful for the peeps at Therapist Uncensored and Dan Brown for collaborating on this episode. I remember listening to this so many years ago and it really set off a spark. I always share this episode and Dan's work and hope it reaches more people. I was so sadden by Dan's passing - an absolutely remarkable man - his work really changed my life.
Just listening to the beginning of this and I'll admit it's a little bit difficult. A lot of us experienced you moralization because of years and years, literally I'm 34 and it's been a lifetime's worth of poor choices both resulting from and resulting in abuse. I'm honestly surprised that wasn't something you mentioned before white privilege.
you don't know what you're talking about. De-humanizing is giving your enemy a different name. Geek, Gook, like those. De-humanize your enemy so your soldiers don't think of the enemy as humans. That's what it is. you're blabbering doesn't make sense
i'm sending this interview to a bunch of friends! thanks so much 🙂
7:10 Wow. Early disorganized attachment aggravated by later traumatization. This one sentence seems to hit the nail on the head of my case. My mother was not predictable when I was 4, mainly ill, absent, then commited suicide when I was 5. And then my father was not able to provide any of the 5 functions of attachment that Dan Brown mentions in his Ideal Parent Figure protocol, and my step mother tried by all means to humiliate me, break me so that I feel repentant for never apologizing nor admitting that I am faulty and flawed. Nice combination these two patterns. Now at 44 I am beginning to finally discover that I might have cPTSD and feel hopefull of finally tackling what's been eating me all life, unknowingly really.
All the best in your journey
That is my intention. ❤
people should check out CIRS, most often mold exposure or other biotoxins like lyme disease. Its a silent epidemic and when you begin to look at bathrooms, window seals for black mold (not only) you see it everywhere. It can cause soooo many problems, anger bouts, sleep issues, depression, low dopamine, so many issues are excaberated because of these conditions!
I’ve just done the training in this. I highly recommend it.
Online therapy is awful and practisioners probably like it because it cuts their office rental fees. To say anything otherwise, I believe, is bending the truth beyond the breaking point. My therapist is currently wearing a mask, which I think is equal parts cultural, and I feel like I should be getting a 50% discount because we can't see each other's faces.
This Dr. I s the “Truth”, next level Ty!
Wow. This is profound. Im going to look for the book and dive in.
What's the name of the book?
@@inkring Attachment Disturbances in Adults: Treatment for Comprehensive Repair
May you feel shame follow you for the rest of your life. Your father failed raising you, then you failed as a man. And you think you're some teacher 😂😂
I would like more examples
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First-class interview. Thank you.
Oh, this was so great! Thank you so much for sharing this.
Such good stuff! Thank you so much for sharing! 👌
Thanks for your work
Aww love Stan! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
✅ very good
✅ good video
I learned a lot listening to this. Thank you so much!
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I’m curious about the link between populations who experience insecure attachment and if more women are disorganized and anxious? Also I couldn’t help but notice as someone with disorganized attachment traits that dr brown mentioned dismissives being particularly satisfying to work with. Maybe I’m internalizing this as discouraging to a fault. But I’m curious about how oppression of women might factor into women having unique challenges that are “less satisfying” aka more complicated to work with.
"Co-constructing [and collaborating] a new culture from scratch...based on real interdependence...same things to gain and to lose...consider each other...how we manage under stress is different to when we are not" What if a person manages stress poorly every time grievances, in the interest of constructing new ways of being, are brought up, even when that person was happy/calm a minute ago? In that case, a calm moment to initiate such discussions, can never be found.
This is exactly my problem as well. Any relationship problem you ask about, the experts say "just talk about your relationship needs when you're calm". Unless the conversation involves me saying he meets my needs perfectly all the time is met with a meltdown because I've hurt his feelings and triggered old wounds. I guess the answer is leave.
25:05 this explanation of why conversations that do not validate or see you are painful is spot on 🎯. I felt invisible as a child. Thank you.
❤ excellent communication analogy playing ping pong 🆚 playing catch. One is interactive, a team effort. The other is a competition. Sue’s example of GETTING, ‘catching’ her son’s sleep monsters was outstanding.