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So is it developmental or prewired?

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Wow! Bless you for inviting Dr shena j young on this podcast! Just listening to the words she helps us REFORM is so liberating for me! When she uses terms like "Global Majority" to describe us, Black Americans, it is more accurate for my own LIVED experience...I am an American who is African, yet my CULTURE, LANGUAGE and HERITAGE was ripped from me and my American family lineage. I am NOT an immigrant. I am both Indigenous to America and from a bloodline forced through torture and terrorism to this land as abused captives that are generationally traumatized through systemic dehumanization, disenfranchised, betrayed and perpetual oppression. My surviving People and I have been lied to and betrayed for generations about liberation and reparations despite being the central labor used to build the wealth, commerce, infrastructure, and appropriated democracy & culture of this nation. To hear Dr shena young identify "European supremacy education" is such a profound acknowledgement for generational African Indigenous American survivors of the ongoing and unamended American racist terrorism that profits from our genocide and human enslavement, that continues through the American Jim Crow lynching mass incarceral caste system, land theft, resource theft, and deadly toxic planetary destruction and extinction of wildlife ESSENTIAL to our African and Indigenous education. European supremacy education literally disembodies me and harms me the same way sexual abuse experienced in our misogynistic imbedded rape culture does. I'm so amazed that Dr shena was able to navigate through her colonized and disembodying Euro-supremacy education experience so that she was able to transform and emerge as such an authentic and holistic healer for us! Thank you once again for such a robust and liberating interview!

I don't agree with this guy's understand of Parts and IFS

This little video deserves so much more attention.

Walk through is at around 24:30. Thanks so much for this wonderful interview!

Very fascinating! Thank you for sharing this protocol!

Completely disagree… no facts just emotions

Does ideal parent figure protocol work well self guided ?

Why do we have two?

I love Jeff! Followed his work since his time at Soulforce. How can I hear more from him?

I have a (hopefully) interesting question. I think there is some truth to, in general, men lean blue and women lean red. I believe you both are a couple? Would you say you both lean red, but in your partnership, one of you leans blue? Or would you say that one of you has "always" been blue (ie childhood condition) and that's what lead to your attraction? I am interested in the idea that these polarities can either be highly complementary or polarizing. In the "ideal" we would all be green and be open with each other but with clear boundaries. How realistic is that actually? Is it more accurate to say that a good partnership is 2 people who are insecure but know it, or 2 people who have achieved some sort of consistent green zone relating? I've heard gottman and tatkin talk about mentor couples, as though there are people out there who are a green/green union. Is that real or more of a conceptualization?

Love this dr he’s a gift such a fantastic voice

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✅good video

Brilliant thank you

Me too

I am a HUGE fan of my friend who does Sound Baths ... I feel like I've been cleansed from the top down after one session... I'm new to EMDR. Just finally found a therapist.

Eternity grateful for the peeps at Therapist Uncensored and Dan Brown for collaborating on this episode. I remember listening to this so many years ago and it really set off a spark. I always share this episode and Dan's work and hope it reaches more people. I was so sadden by Dan's passing - an absolutely remarkable man - his work really changed my life.

Just listening to the beginning of this and I'll admit it's a little bit difficult. A lot of us experienced you moralization because of years and years, literally I'm 34 and it's been a lifetime's worth of poor choices both resulting from and resulting in abuse. I'm honestly surprised that wasn't something you mentioned before white privilege.

you don't know what you're talking about. De-humanizing is giving your enemy a different name. Geek, Gook, like those. De-humanize your enemy so your soldiers don't think of the enemy as humans. That's what it is. you're blabbering doesn't make sense

i'm sending this interview to a bunch of friends! thanks so much 🙂

7:10 Wow. Early disorganized attachment aggravated by later traumatization. This one sentence seems to hit the nail on the head of my case. My mother was not predictable when I was 4, mainly ill, absent, then commited suicide when I was 5. And then my father was not able to provide any of the 5 functions of attachment that Dan Brown mentions in his Ideal Parent Figure protocol, and my step mother tried by all means to humiliate me, break me so that I feel repentant for never apologizing nor admitting that I am faulty and flawed. Nice combination these two patterns. Now at 44 I am beginning to finally discover that I might have cPTSD and feel hopefull of finally tackling what's been eating me all life, unknowingly really.

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people should check out CIRS, most often mold exposure or other biotoxins like lyme disease. Its a silent epidemic and when you begin to look at bathrooms, window seals for black mold (not only) you see it everywhere. It can cause soooo many problems, anger bouts, sleep issues, depression, low dopamine, so many issues are excaberated because of these conditions!

I’ve just done the training in this. I highly recommend it.

Online therapy is awful and practisioners probably like it because it cuts their office rental fees. To say anything otherwise, I believe, is bending the truth beyond the breaking point. My therapist is currently wearing a mask, which I think is equal parts cultural, and I feel like I should be getting a 50% discount because we can't see each other's faces.

This Dr. I s the “Truth”, next level Ty!

Wow. This is profound. Im going to look for the book and dive in.

May you feel shame follow you for the rest of your life. Your father failed raising you, then you failed as a man. And you think you're some teacher 😂😂

I would like more examples

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First-class interview. Thank you.

Oh, this was so great! Thank you so much for sharing this.

Such good stuff! Thank you so much for sharing! 👌

Thanks for your work

Aww love Stan! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

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I learned a lot listening to this. Thank you so much!

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I’m curious about the link between populations who experience insecure attachment and if more women are disorganized and anxious? Also I couldn’t help but notice as someone with disorganized attachment traits that dr brown mentioned dismissives being particularly satisfying to work with. Maybe I’m internalizing this as discouraging to a fault. But I’m curious about how oppression of women might factor into women having unique challenges that are “less satisfying” aka more complicated to work with.

"Co-constructing [and collaborating] a new culture from scratch...based on real interdependence...same things to gain and to lose...consider each other...how we manage under stress is different to when we are not" What if a person manages stress poorly every time grievances, in the interest of constructing new ways of being, are brought up, even when that person was happy/calm a minute ago? In that case, a calm moment to initiate such discussions, can never be found.

25:05 this explanation of why conversations that do not validate or see you are painful is spot on 🎯. I felt invisible as a child. Thank you.

❤ excellent communication analogy playing ping pong 🆚 playing catch. One is interactive, a team effort. The other is a competition. Sue’s example of GETTING, ‘catching’ her son’s sleep monsters was outstanding.